It is so easy to get lost in crap, isn't it? It grows and gains importance and seems overwhelming sometimes. How lucky are we that a few words from a wise friend can cut through the crap and bring us back to clarity and perspective? I have been accused of being a Pollyanna and told that I do not take negative things seriously. I don't think that's true. I take them seriously. I just don't choose to give them any more weight than they already have. I have this one life and I choose to make it a happy life. I choose to focus on the positive and to enjoy every moment that I can. Both Clay and Jemock have given us some tools to be able to do just that. I am grateful for these voices of reason. I am loving the fabulous friends I have made in this fandom. I am thrilled as I anticipate this Soft Rock Hard Place tour. I am committed to continuing to focus on the positive and ignore the negative. I'm feeling good!